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All Posts, My Diet, My Gambling Problem, My Online Game Addiction

Addictive Personality

In the dictionary, under the term "addictive personality", there really should be a photo of me!

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April 8, 2008
All Posts, Psychology, Relationships

Making Mistakes

I strongly suspect something I wrote in a previous entry might have been wrong. This entry explores that and what I have done about it.

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January 12, 2007
All Posts, Miscellaneous, Relationships, Soapbox

Love And Sex

This entry explains why I believe the more sex men and women have the harder it is for them to genuinely love each other.

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October 26, 2006
All Posts, Soapbox

Big Brother Begins Again

The 2008 Australian Big Brother has begun and a guest is a boy who rose to fame on the back of an out of control party.

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May 12, 2008
All Posts, My Faith, Quit Smoking

Glowing Christians

Last night I saw two Christians who were glowing with the joy of living God's will for them and I want to be like them so much.

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February 10, 2008
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Grief and Loss
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Family Violence
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Reasons to Live
  • Web Ga Ce
    All Posts,  My Diet,  My Health

    My WLS – Post Surgery 1

    April 9, 2022 / No Comments

    It has now been just over a week since I had weight loss surgery. I started the journey in October last year but, thanks to Covid-19 elective surgery cancellations, it has taken this long to actually happen. I really wasn’t sure it would happen at all to be honest. I kind of feel like it shouldn’t have and that it only did happen because God was willing for me to have the surgery. I started the pre-op diet but had very little success. I kept cheating and having my favourite meals and I would tell myself, every time, this is the last time you’ll be able to eat this. I…

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    April 30, 2007
  • Diet Shake
    All Posts,  My Diet,  My Faith,  My Health

    My Weight Loss Surgery – POD – day 11

    September 19, 2021 / No Comments

    It’s day 11 of my 42 day pre-operation diet (POD) and it’s the first day I have not cheated but the day is only half over. I’m feeling a mixture of things. Shame because I have given in to temptation over and over again. Anger towards the surgeon. I just want to yell at him: “HEY – If I could stick to diets and lose the weight myself I wouldn’t NEED the surgery you moron!” Sadness because eating is the only thing in my life that gives me pleasure these days and now I’m about to lose that too. Frustration because how come I can’t get control over this aspect…

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    April 21, 2008
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    December 9, 2006
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    A Difference Between Men And Women.

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  • Lose Weight
    All Posts,  My Diet,  My Health

    My Weight Loss Surgery – Pre-Op Diet

    September 8, 2021 / No Comments

    The countdown to surgery is about to begin. I start my six week pre-op diet in just a few days.

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    Diet Update

    March 12, 2008
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    May 18, 2007
    Fear

    Trust, Self-Talk and Support.

    September 10, 2006
  • Gastroscopy Procedure
    All Posts,  My Health

    My Weight Loss Surgery – Gastroscopy

    August 15, 2021 / No Comments

    I had to have a Gastroscopy to check my stomach for ulcers and other nasties prior to having weight loss surgery.

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    Pedestrian Rage

    January 28, 2007
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    April 7, 2007
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    Cultural Cringe

    September 23, 2006
  • Obesity
    All Posts,  My Diet,  My Health

    My Weight Loss Surgery – The Prequel

    July 29, 2021 / No Comments

    I've been accepted to have weight loss surgery. This is how I came to need it.

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    May 31, 2008
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    February 23, 2007
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    March 12, 2007
  • Keep Walking
    All Posts,  Miscellaneous,  My Health

    Work, Health, Home, etc.

    June 28, 2021 / No Comments

    Work, moving house, health, just a general catch up on what's been happening with me.

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    What If?

    January 6, 2012
    Transformation

    General Advice For People Wanting Help To Stop Abuse

    September 21, 2009
    Sculpture Listen

    Hearing God’s Voice

    May 8, 2009
  • Rough Road Sign
    All Posts,  My Faith

    It’s Been A Rough Road

    January 27, 2021 / No Comments

    Sometimes a song just expresses what you can't. This is one such song for me.

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    February 14, 2020
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    December 22, 2006
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    April 3, 2008
  • Prayer
    Conversations with God,  From The Bible,  My Faith

    Growing Pains

    September 28, 2020 / No Comments

    I feel like I'm growing as a Christian since I started reading the bible every day but it's not without it's growing pains.

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    November 6, 2006
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    May 29, 2011
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    January 27, 2011
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    All Posts,  My Faith

    How I Became Born Again

    July 21, 2020 / No Comments

    This is a brief version of the story of how I became a Christian and the changes God has wrought in me since then.

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    October 7, 2006
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    PayPal Phishing Scam

    May 18, 2008
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    July 13, 2007
  • Corona Dove
    All Posts,  From The Bible

    Covid 19 And Daily Devotionals

    June 19, 2020 / No Comments

    Thanks to Covid 19 I have started reading my bible daily and I'm finding I actually enjoy it.

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    From Sex To Celibacy.

    October 24, 2006
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    August 13, 2007
    Social Media

    Friend Suggestions – A Scammers Best Friend

    February 14, 2020
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