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    All Posts,  Life Skills,  My Depression

    Depression Strikes Again

    October 1, 2008 / No Comments

    Depression is a difficult thing to get rid of when you are prone to all varieties of it. Here is the tale of my latest run-in with the beast.

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    March 22, 2007
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    August 2, 2007
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    January 18, 2007
  • I Believe In Me
    All Posts,  Life Skills,  My Depression,  My Gambling Problem

    Turning A Corner

    October 12, 2007 / No Comments

    I feel like I have turned a corner with my gambling problem. It's early days yet but I actually think I am no longer addicted.

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    March 22, 2007
  • Broke
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    Believe Your Bank Balance

    June 14, 2007 / No Comments

    I've been fighting the urge to gamble tonight and it has led to me coming up with a new slogan that I hope will help me beat my gambling addiction.

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    October 26, 2006
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    August 24, 2007
  • Computer Problem
    All Posts,  Life Skills

    Pessimism, Paranoia And Post Traumatic Stress Disorder.

    November 18, 2006 / No Comments

    A trojan horse on my computer triggers pessimism and paranoia. These activate my PTSD and my reactions cause more harm than the trojan itself!

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    August 27, 2006
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    Addictive Personality

    April 8, 2008
  • Blood Money
    All Posts,  Life Skills,  My Gambling Problem

    Addiction

    October 12, 2006 / No Comments

    Some information about addiction and how I handled my lapse back into my gambling addiction. The difference between a lapse and a relapse and the use of positive self-talk to prevent relapse.

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    July 29, 2021
  • Fear
    All Posts,  Life Skills

    Trust, Self-Talk and Support.

    September 10, 2006 / No Comments

    The situation at work turns out to be due to a mistake I have made. This entry describes how I trusted my co-worker to be supportive of me and used positive self-talk to work through it.

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    June 11, 2011
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    Self-Disclosure And Me.

    September 29, 2006
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    July 21, 2020
  • Paranoia Panic Self Talk Persistence
    All Posts,  Life Skills,  My Faith

    Paranoia, Panic, Self-Talk and Persistence.

    September 8, 2006 / No Comments

    Another incident at work triggers paranoia, pessimism and panic in me. This is the story of how I used positive self-talk to cope with my feelings and reactions to the situation.

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    October 18, 2006
  • Pessimism Anxiety Self Talk
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    Pessimism, Anxiety and Self-Talk

    September 5, 2006 / No Comments

    The details of how I used several life-skills to cope with an incident at work. The incident caused anxiety, fired up my habitual pessimism and created panic in me.

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    November 18, 2006
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    January 28, 2007
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    Paranoia, Panic, Self-Talk and Persistence.

    September 8, 2006
  • Deceive
    All Posts,  Lessons From God

    You can’t believe everything you tell yourself.

    August 29, 2006 / No Comments

    The tale of my arrogant attempt to save the soul of a priest and how God taught me to question the excuses I give myself for my own behaviour.

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