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    My Weight Loss Surgery – POD – day 11

    September 19, 2021 / No Comments

    It’s day 11 of my 42 day pre-operation diet (POD) and it’s the first day I have not cheated but the day is only half over. I’m feeling a mixture of things. Shame because I have given in to temptation over and over again. Anger towards the surgeon. I just want to yell at him: “HEY – If I could stick to diets and lose the weight myself I wouldn’t NEED the surgery you moron!” Sadness because eating is the only thing in my life that gives me pleasure these days and now I’m about to lose that too. Frustration because how come I can’t get control over this aspect…

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    June 1, 2013 / No Comments

    I tried to count my blessings but it wasn't as easy as I thought it would be. I have way more to be thankful for than I realised!

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    January 31, 2013 / No Comments

    I have a couple more health issues to deal with but I'm doing good, better than you might expect really, thanks to God.

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    February 28, 2012 / No Comments

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    February 15, 2012 / No Comments

    People have been arguing about what to believe for centuries now but I think faith is more about why you believe than what you believe.

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    August 11, 2010 / No Comments

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    September 22, 2006 / 15 Comments

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