This entry is just a generic response to letters from people who want help to stop abuse from happening in their lives.
A lot of people are coming to this site through search terms such as “how do I stop being an abuser” and “how to stop abusing others”. I have had letters from people asking me for help to stop their abusive behaviour. I have not been able to post those letters on the site as the letter writers did not give me permission to do so but it seems there are people who are seeking help to change their ways. My website designer encouraged me to write this article on how to stop abusive behaviour but it is not as easy as it may seem. Most abuse prevention tends to…